Episode 164, Why Gender Activism is Targeting Our Families—and How to Respond Faithfully
Maria Keffler is the co-founder of Advocates Protecting Children. This organization serves and supports churches, schools, organizations, and individuals seeking facts and guidance on responding to gender ideology and activism. She is also a co-founder of the Arlington Parent Coalition, a watchdog group in Arlington, VA, dedicated to safeguarding parents’ rights and protecting children in public education. With a background in educational psychology, Maria is uniquely equipped to address these pressing issues.
In this episode, we discuss her book, Desist, Detrans, and Detox, available on SophiaInstitute.com and Amazon.com. This excellent resource provides parents with the tools they need to navigate the cultural challenges of our time, offering guidance in a society where many feel uncertain about where to turn.
Why Are So Many Children Identifying as Transgender?
As an educator and parent, Maria sought to understand why the incidence of transgender identification has skyrocketed in recent years. Dr. Patrick Lappert, MD, noted:
“This book has come at a most important time in our public conversation about transgender medicine and surgery. It is an invaluable help in understanding how it is possible to see a 5000% rise in this putative diagnosis, without hearing advocates ask a single question about why this is even happening.”
What Does Gender Ideology Actually Mean?
Maria begins her book by addressing the foundational concepts of gender ideology. In Chapter One, she writes:
“But gender has no meaning, no basis, and no objective tests to measure it. What proponents of gender ideology call ‘gender’ is never even defined.”
She emphasizes the lack of scientific evidence for the claim that a person can be “born in the wrong body.” Instead, she affirms that sex is binary and immutable, while personality is fluid and diverse.
Why Transitioning Doesn’t Solve the Problem
Maria shares that the current practices of transitioning through hormones and surgery do not address underlying problems. Studies show that suicide rates remain higher—even after transitioning—and there are no long-term studies to evaluate the effects of puberty blockers or gender surgeries on children. These experimental treatments leave many families feeling overwhelmed and betrayed by a medical establishment that fails to address root causes.
Vulnerable Youth Are the Target
Maria’s book delves into how high school clubs and peer groups often target vulnerable young people—those with autism, ADHD, depression, anxiety, or a history of trauma—who may already struggle with low self-esteem. These teens, seeking answers to their identity struggles, are often drawn into gender ideology as a perceived solution, creating immense stress within families.
The Importance of Communication in Families
Maria emphasizes that open communication between parents and teens is critical during these challenging years. She encourages families to stay engaged, even when it’s difficult, as this connection is vital to guiding teens through moments of confusion and doubt.
A Well-Researched Resource for Parents
Desist, Detrans, and Detox is meticulously researched, with over 150 references supporting its claims. It offers a beacon of hope and clarity for parents who want to protect their children and navigate these cultural issues with wisdom and compassion.
